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Orang Tuamu

Ujian tu. Ujian pada 'rasa hormat' mu ke kedua orang tua mu. Bukan waktu kau kecil-kecil. Bukan waktu kau still depend on them. Tapi waktu kau sudah lagi tidak perlukan diorang. Sudah bekerjaya. Ber pangkat Doctor, PHd, etc. Sudah boleh hidup ber dikari sendiri. Sudah ber kawinan semua. Waktu ni lah kau di uji!

Di sini lah sebenar-benar 'test' sama ada kau masih lagi mampu hormat atau tidak pada mereka. Sabar atau tidak pada mereka.

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Akan sampai satu masa. Orang tua mu akan kembali ke level itu. Level sensitivity nya memuncak. Keanak-anakkan nya lebih ketara. Kencing nya ber sepah. Kata-katanya sinis. Mulut nya enggan berhenti bicara tentang kejayaan, tentang hebatnya dia masa mudanya. 

*Akan sampai masa itu*

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Aku terkesan. 
Selang lima hari yang lepas. Aku menemani kakak ku konvo di KL :)

Aku Allah pilih, menjaga uwa ku (nenek perempuanku). Kesan nya deeppp pada ku. Otak ni, ndak berhenti-henti! berfikir, menafsir, ber jelaga dalam pekat nya jerebu! 

"Bagaimana orang tua ku nanti di masa tuanya? Dan bagaimana aku nanti di masa tua ku?" 

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Nenekku.
Aku faham kondisi ini di usia tua. She just can't stop talking (ber kunyanyang nye urang Brunai). And somehow, apa yang dia cakap tu. If you type yang 'makan dalam', you might get hurt over and over again. luls. Sebab dia versi 'terus terang'. Dia ndak suka, dia kutuk kau depan-depan. Makcik pakcik aku la salu kena. luls. 

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Sangat-sangat menguji beb~ lebih-lebih lagi jika dia kutuk kau depan khalayak ramai. luls. Telan liur gulp* gulp* seja arr~ huhu.

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Cuma pada waktu ini lah! 'Pembuktian' kau tu hormat ndak masih dengan dia :)

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Aku dah learn satu teknik, waktu ber musafir dengan nenek ku ni :) Satu seja yang kau perlu buat :) "Kau kena set kan di minda mu. Kau faham. Dan kau kena jaga hati dia, camna kau layan kanak-kanak"

e.g.

"Bah, age tah! panyapi barang-barang atu!" (First order*)

"Ok we, kajap ar" 

"Ih! panyapi barang atu! Nde kan nde merati!" (Second order*)

"Okay~ kajap arr~" (Lunakkan suara, walau apa keadaan pun)

Uwa. Senyap and tenang :)

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Aku perasan. Bila api, lawan air. Jawabnya. Neutral :) Tenang :) Orang tua-tua ni, mahu nya cuma di hormati. Di dengari. Di ikuti. Kadang, if you can't follow certain instruction tu, just sembunyi kan ja, ndak perlu di bentak. luls. Sesetengah orang bukan boleh tahan tu beb~ susah~

But actually, makin kita lawan, makin panjang adegan tu. luls. Give it a try. Jadi air dalam marak nya api :) 

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Ok la. Letih :) luls. Tapi post ni versi ndak boleh tangguh. Nanti 'hilang mood' :)

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Apa pun. Motif nya :)

"Kalau kita ndak mau, anak-anak kita buat dekat kita kelak. Dari harini, kita trend diri kita untuk tidak buat gitu dekat parent kita kan? In shaa Allah.

*Yeap. susah*

Tapi boleh di latih.

*Yeap. bukan mudah*

Tapi. Tidak mustahil. 

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My mom said.

"Syukur lah masih ada uwa yang kamu boleh layan karenah nya"

luls.

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Salam sayang :)

NukilanRasaMasjidJamek

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