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Sekali ini. Mohon fikirkan

Bukan memilih. Tapi cakna.Serious.Mahu. Jaminan kekeluargaan.Yang paling religi, utuh stabil. 

"Jadi, mahu yang terus-terus stabil? Kalau macam tu, kahwin dengan anak datuk ja la"

Jangan salah tafsir. 
Saya pun sekarang kategori 'bawah' yang cuba naik ke atas membangun hidup.
But.
At least show me your focus and vision in life. 

Seriously. 
For women, nothing is unattractive in a man.
Other than the one who don't see their vision in life.

Sebab wanita, mahunya di pimpin.
Jelas karisma. 
Jelas perencanaan hidup. 
If.
Dalam hal hidup sendiri pun, a man can't handle theirs.
Trust me.
'Yakin' dan 'jaminan' or they called it reassurance.
Ubat pada psikologi wanita tu, susah untuk di dapat kan.

Apa kau ingat ingat kahwin tu.
Alat lepas nafsu ja?

Pendek sungguh akal. 
Maaf kasar. 

"Tapi sekali ini, mohon fikirkan"

Memasuki pernikahan.
Untuk membina.
Memberi.
Membahagiakan sesama ahli.

Bukan.
Duduk goyang kaki.
Tanpa tujuan.

Aku tolak sekali ini.
Jelas.
Satu, sebab tidak punya rasa.
Dua, mungkin untuk ketuk minda. 

Kau mungkin lihat pendekatan ini materialistik. 

Tapi.
Bukan.

Ini jelas bertujuan, 
Jika aku materialistik, buat apa aku sendiri menuntut hidup berdikari membina kerjaya?
Baiklah, kerjannya mencantikkan diri menggoda lelaki kaya tanpa perlu berkerja. 
Murahan.
Not an option. 

Wanita.
Biar membangun diri. 
Biar dirinya jelas ber ambisi. 
Materialistik?
Bisa. Why not? Asal saja dari poket nya sendiri. 
How's that ? ;)

Harap dengan ketukan ini.
Kau bangkit mendada.
Untuk memajukan diri.

Moga yang kau dapat nanti.
Solehah mandiri.
Terbaik di sisi.
Dan selalu tunduk meng hormati.
Taat pada erti kata seorang isteri.

Sekali lagi.
Mohon fikirkan. 

Tidak congak. Tidak sesekali niat merendahkan mu.
Tapi aku jelas pada mau ku. 
Moga kau juga begitu.

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